Bienvenidos a Matchblog. Soy Nevaeh Charlie.

Ok.. it has the same name as this site, which evidently didn't go far, despite its delectable Chilean background, but it bears few similarities.

Depending on the lifespan of this blog, I intend to collate my thoughts, feelings, entice discussion, poke holes at theories and advice on other site, and anything else relating to the 21st century phenomenon known as online dating.

There have been a few of these sites in the past, however they haven't really lasted long. Perhaps they found their true love and felt no need to speculate, over-analyse and reflect any longer. To be honest I believe this is the time when you SHOULD be doing this.. learning does not end when you think you've found it.. its the beginning of the journey.

I intend to be here for a while.. well at least for a year, because that's how long I anticipate being part of match.com.

Although I will be focusing on match I will also be discussing other websites that I may or may not be a member of. This journal will ideally enable me to create a theory, formula, or even to identify a pattern which continually slips me up! Hence why being utterly single in my mid twenties. Yes, I've been out with a few people in the past year and even had a long term relationship, but recently, ie. when I want it more, its even more difficult to find the right person.

A wise, (or several wise, or even I may have said this once!), person said,

"You don't find love, love finds you"

OR

"You will find love in the least expected place and time"

OR

"Why are you still single? What's wrong with you?"

This was one of my semi-nightmares when growing up. All I wanted was one person to love me for who I am..I'm not the most abnormal person in the world, but I am fairly unique I like to think, in my own ways. Plenty of people find me physically attractive, but then for whatever reasons, things don't work out. Perhaps because I throw my heart and soul into a relationship when it starts instead of playing the games that surely keeps a man.. allegedly. Others basically end in me being rather fickle, bored, or most recently.. slapped!

I'm not a bunny boiler, clingy, or a SaTC wannabe. I'm just a woman, hoping to find the right man. Its what every girl wants, right?